[C.Rebecca]

You sure can’t force your website in the index but you can try catalysing the process. Here’s how:
- Use fetch as Google bot tool
- Submit an XML sitemap to Google
- Acquire some relevant Inbound Links from authority sites that get crawled frequently
- Develop a do-follow internal linking structure
- Submit your RSS feed to search engines
- Ping the search engines

For good backlinks,
- Submit your website to social bookmarking websites
- Participate in niche related forums and communities
- Comment and guest post on popular, related blogs
- Submit your website and blog to trafficable, related directories

I use a tool called ‘Keyword Country’ to find quality sources for link-building and that too in a completely natural and legitimate way...